SOUTHERN ILLINOIS – It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of Shane Lee Harris, who left us on February 14, 2025, after a courageous battle with epilepsy. Shane’s strength and resilience will forever be remembered by those who loved him.
Shane is survived by his devoted companion, Roxy; his parents, Trent and Alison Cross, and Shawn and Anna Harris; and his siblings, Kinsey Vanwey and her husband Jacob, Robert Hunter Cross, Riley Cross, and Mazie Eubanks; his beloved niece Paislee Vanwey; and his grandparents, Howard Lee and Nancy Kinsey, Robert and Candance Cross and Larry and Mona Sample. He also leaves behind countless cousins, aunts, and uncles who cherished him dearly.
He was preceded in death by his uncle, Shane Harris; and his grandparents, Tom and Iva Lea Hamilton, Evelyn and Howard Kinsey and Bob and Cindy Harris.
Shane’s family finds solace in knowing that he is now free from the pain that plagued him in life. His passing leaves an irreplaceable void, but the memory of his one-of-a-kind humor, his love for others, and his generosity will live on forever. Anyone who knew Shane could recall the countless funny moments they shared with him, and it was these moments, filled with laughter, that Shane treasured most. Above all, he wanted those around him to smile, and he found joy in making others laugh, even in the toughest of times.
Shane’s illness was the greatest challenge of his life, but his greatest sorrow was the pain it caused his loved ones. Now, as we remember him, we take comfort in the thought that he is at peace, free from his struggles. The family invites everyone who loved him to keep him in their hearts and share in the joyful memories he left behind.
Shane had a deep appreciation for life’s simple pleasures—fishing and hunting with his two dads, playing pool with his Papa, and shed hunting with his Uncle Bobby. He loved the comfort of his friend, John, always teaching him about new hobbies and the love of our Lord. He also cherished the laughter-filled moments with his mom and sister and loved reminiscing about his mischievous boyhood fun he found himself in with his brothers. He found great comfort in his Nana’s cooking and the Cross family’s delicious breakfast casserole and their ability to just listen. These small acts of love meant everything to Shane, and he often worried about those who might not have such support. He would want us all to remember: be that person for someone else, laugh, love, and cherish the small moments.
Shane believed that in the end, it is the good times and the connections we make with others that truly matter. Life is hard, but Shane would encourage us to focus on the joyful moments and to not be afraid of making tough connections as those supersede all materialistic value.
In keeping with Shane’s wishes, his family will hold a private ceremony in honor of his gracious earthly battle.
Shane will be deeply loved and missed until we meet again.
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